There are many factors you need to avoid if you are to preserve your
relationship/marriage. Below, we'll talk about three but important
things to take into consideration.
LACK OF TRUST:
Trust is the key to every successful
relationship. You should be able to trust your partner in every
situation. Once you both can share the same trust, happiness, peace and
love flows and you both have little to fear for. Without trust, anger
and quarrel steps in and these are factors that kills a
relationship/marriage fast.
One thing you should also know is
that trust is earned, not commanded. Do the right things which will
assure your partner that you can stay faithful to him/her and also
capable of evaluating and handling complex situations.
BRIDGE IN COMMUNICATION:
Communication in this context does
not mean phone calls or text messages. Communication here refers to how
you relate with your partner. This matters a lot because communication
is the key to understanding.
Body language, romantic interest and
sexual mood should also be well communicated. Your wife needs to know
when you're in the mood for sex. She's your wife, not your sex slave so
proper communication in this aspect will preserve mutual respect.
How do you communicate with your
partner when he/she is depressed? How do you communicate with him/her
when you're in a sour or devastated mood? Examine this and amend where
necessary.
INFIDELITY:
This is simply the act of being
unfaithful to your partner. You might be successfully cheating but then,
have you asked yourself what your partner's reaction would be if he/she
finds out? Is he/she the type that would give you another chance? I'm
sure you haven't asked yourself these questions. There is no joy in
infidelity. Staying faithful is the surest way of maintaining a forever
relationship/marriage. Be advised!
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