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Trusted and Proved! 7 Important Ways To Keep Your Relationship Strong!

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 is not hard to contemplate that a lot of effort is required to make a 
relationship work and last and anyone who has been a part of one will 
completely agree. Even though most people agree that they need to add a 
little special something, most people really do not actually know what 
that special something is.<br /><br />There are plenty of things that a 
couple can do to strengthen their bond in ways unimaginable and all they
 need is some guidance. The purpose of that is exactly that, providing 
couples with some extremely important tips that will undoubtedly lead 
them down a road that depicts nothing but a prosperous and happy future 
with your current or future partner.<br /><br />1. Hey honey how are you?<br />A
 tip that most couples overlook is calling your partner in the middle of
 the day to simply say hello. This is a great gesture that lets the 
other know the you are still thinking about them, regardless of the fact
 that you just met each other a couple of hours ago. Do not think of 
this as one of those calls that is making sure that you are actually, 
where you are supposed to be. One of the biggest problems with people is
 miscommunication and not understanding the real meaning behind certain 
behaviors. Therefore, it is vital that couples look at certain things 
positively and consider them nice gestures. Maybe you can even share a 
nice little laugh in between the short call, because we all know how 
important laughter can be for our health and relationship.<br /><br />2. Communicate<br />While
 this may seem like a given, it’s amazing to me how little time the 
average couples spends communicating. Of course there is the usual chit 
chat and “how was your day dear?” kind of banter but getting down to the
 heart of it, real communication means infinitely more. If there is 
something that has been bothering you or an area of the relationship 
that is making you unhappy, simply ignoring it isn’t going to do the 
trick. Its best when the other person in the relationship knows these 
concerns so that you can work on a solution together and hopefully keep 
the situation from getting out of hand. Even if things are great in the 
relationship, spending quality time discussing more in depth topics is a
 way for you to channel and heighten your emotional intimacy.<br /><br />3. Make Time For You<br />Too
 many times in relationships, couples forget that they need their own 
space and end up compromising their own interests which of course leads 
to unhappiness down the road. Of course there is that beginning 
“honeymoon phase” in any relationship where it seems that nothing else 
matters except for the other person but…hate to be the bearer of bad 
news…that part fades. But like everything else in life, change isn’t 
always a bad thing. Relationships transition and once they do, you will 
find yourself missing the friends, hobbies and other activities that you
 may have momentarily cast aside. Rediscover these interests and a 
little space will not only improve your relationship but also allow you 
to enjoy the things that make you who you are!<br /><br />4. Complement One Another<br />It
 doesn’t matter if you have been together 10 weeks or 10 years, 
complements don’t get old. It’s all too easy to get drawn into that lull
 of “comfort” (which is a great place to be) but since you are not only 
best friends but lovers too, it’s important to take the time to make 
each other feel special. While many of us are quick to point out flaws, 
we aren’t as quick to dish out complements. Take time to tell you 
partner you appreciate them and help boost their strengths. Everyone 
enjoys feeling like they have been recognized for all the good they have
 done, whether this means making a wonderful romantic dinner or spending
 30 extra minutes to get ready to go somewhere.<br /><br />5. Get Somewhere Together<br />There
 is something magical about vacation. As kids we play in the sand, 
frolic in the waves and go to bed exhausted and happy. It’s important to
 take time out from the stress of work or of raising a family and to 
reconnect in a new and exciting place. No matter what your budget, set 
money aside for a weekend getaway every now and then.<br /><br />If a 
relationship consists of “all work and no play,” it’s one that will have
 a relatively short shelf life. Yes, we are creatures of habit but this 
doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy a break from the routine ever now and again!<br /><br />6. Compromise<br />At
 last, the one thing that seems so simple but really is hard to master 
is the art of compromise. Nothing is harder than really believing you 
are right and having to give up at least part of your battle for the 
sake of the relationship. There is of course a time to stand up for what
 you believe in and accept no less than you deserve, but when it comes 
to maintaining a harmonious relationship, a little bit of compromise can
 go a long way.<br /><br />7. A little compliment goes a long way<br />And 
lastly, don’t be afraid to complement one another. People just don’t 
understand how much even a silly little compliment can boost the morale 
of an individual. For example, tell your man how great his handyman 
skills are, even if they aren’t, but make sure that you sound serious 
enough so that he doesn’t think that you are ridiculing him.<br /><br />Trust
 me, if you can make your man believe that he is unmatchable in handling
 that hammer or screwdriver he will not only always be willing to fix 
things around the house, but might actually turn into a real good 
handyman. These are three simple tips that most people don’t pay 
attention to, but can make all the difference in strengthening a 
relationship.</span></span>

Trusted and Proved! 7 Important Ways To Keep Your Relationship Strong!

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7 Signs To Know If Your Partner Truly Loves You.. Must Read!

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<span style="font-size: x-small;">One question that often rings in your 
head is "Does s/he truly love me?" Most times, you just can't find an 
answer to that question and even when you speak to friends about it, 
they don't come up with something concrete. Here, I've put together, 7 
signs that can help you know if your partner truly loves you.</span></h2>
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I call them "hard-to-miss" signs because someone who really loves you 
does them without even knowing - love compels them. Read below..<br />
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<b>1. Wants To Spend Time With You:</b><br />
When someone truly loves you, s/he will do everything they can to spend 
time with you irrespective of their schedule. Both of you might be 
occupied due to family, work, or other relevant commitments but someone 
who truly cares about you will always squeeze out time because they 
simply can't do without you.<br />
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<b>2. 'We' Automatically Replaces 'I':</b><br />
Someone who loves you includes you in everything s/he does. He plans for
 both of you which makes them fond of using the word "we" instead of 
"i". Another word they'll start using is "us". It simply means your 
lover sees you as part of his/her life.<br />
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<b>3. Fighting And Apologizing:</b><br />
The truth is, you can never know how strong a relationship is until you 
both have a good fight. Someone who loves you isn't afraid to fight and 
s/he says "sorry" whenever s/he wrongs you - putting pride aside. No 
matter who your partner might be outside, no matter his/her status at 
work, they set pride aside when they're with you.<br />
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<b>4. Respects Your Views:</b><br />
Whenever you speak to your partner, s/he will listen. Someone who loves 
you will always listen to you no matter how senseless what you're saying
 might be. S/he listens calmly and corrects you boldly when s/he feels 
you're wrong.<br />
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<b>5. Asks About Your Day:</b><br />
This is a very obvious way of knowing if your partner truly cares about 
you. When you guys are together, does your partner ask how you spent 
your day? Does s/he tries to find out what happened at work? Even if 
you're not together, such interests keeps communication routes open.<br />
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<b>6. Showing Affection:</b><br />
You don't necessarily need to engage in frequent s*x to be emotionally 
intimate. However, showing some sign of physical attraction and 
closeness bonds the both of you. Example, resting your head on her 
shoulder, frequent hugging or holding hands while walking suggests that 
your partner feels some vital connection in you.<br />
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<b>7. Admires You:</b></div>
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Someone who loves you is quick to admire you. They don't hesitate 
telling you how good you look and they always thank God for blessing 
them with you. Someone who hardly notices your new hair-do or shirt 
cares less about you.</div>
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How To Approach A Woman In Public And Win Her Heart

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<span style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">We 
have been receiving emails from guys asking how they can boldly approach
 a girl in public. Some men are naturally shy while some don't even know
 how to start. The thing is, wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot
 easier than when she's alone.</span></span></h2>
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Here, we have put this down to help you be a man, Lol. Read carefully to the end.<br />
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<b>1. Make Eye Contact:</b><br />
If you see someone you'd like to meet, try to make eye contact before 
talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact.<br />
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If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that
 she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal 
that she's interested.<br />
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Why are eyes so powerful? Science seems to suggest that eye contact 
activates our brain's reward center, the ventral striatum. What does 
this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause 
for celebration!<br />
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Smile. A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you're 
interested in them. If she returns the smile, that's a good sign that 
she might be interested.<br />
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Once you've exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body 
language. This will give you a better idea if she's actually interested.<br />
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<b>2. Check Body Language:</b><br />
While reading another person's body language, male or female, is NOT an 
exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors to look for that 
will signal that the person is not interested in engaging in 
conversation. Respect the girl's right to be left alone.<br />
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Is she facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to 
music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically looking 
away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions and body 
language like this probably means leave her alone.<br />
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Body language is not everything. Women are taught from childhood that 
they must be pleasant no matter what. If you are going to approach her, 
pay attention to how she reacts and what she says.<br />
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<b>3. Break The Ice:</b><br />
Start with a simple ice-breaker. Perhaps you are reading the same book, 
or you noticed she was wearing a shirt that has a band you like. Perhaps
 the bus is late and you can commiserate with her.<br />
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If she doesn't seem interested in talking, leave her alone. There are 
numerous ways to tell: not making eye contact, monosyllabic answers, 
looking around for some way out of the conversation.<br />
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If she is interested she will make that clear: eye contact, smiling, sometimes leaning closer.<br />
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Once you've approached and established that she's interested, proceed to having a conversation.<br />
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<b>4. Strike A Conversation:</b><br />
This might flow naturally out of your ice-breaker comment, but if not there are several ways to have a conversation.<br />
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Ask her if she made her earrings/dress/other cool item. You could even 
say something like "I couldn't help but noticing how your dress matches 
your eyes. It's a great color." It lets her know that you think she's 
attractive without dwelling on her looks. Like anyone else, girls like 
to be appreciated for more than just their appearance.<br />
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If you're in a place like a bookstore or comic book store, ask her what her favorite book is.<br />
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Be sure to listen when she speaks. You'll find out more about her, have 
opportunities to further the conversation, and show her that you are 
interested in her as a person.<br />
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<b>5. Make Plans To Meet Again:</b><br />
If she seems interested and you are still interested, try and make plans for a future meet-up.<br />
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Give her your phone number or email address. This way she feels in 
control of the situation. You'll know for certain that she's interested 
if she follows up.<br />
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Ask for her phone number or email address. If she says no, leave it. She
 doesn't owe you anything further, even if she did enjoy your company.<br />
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Ask her on an instant date. Ask her if she wants to grab coffee 
somewhere. Always choose a public place for an instant date; you want 
her to feel comfortable. Have a coffee shop in mind if you do ask, or 
ask her if she knows a good place. That way she will feel in control of 
the situation.<br />
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<b>6. Be Respectful:</b><br />
This is the absolute most important part of approaching a girl in 
public, or in any situation. If she is not interested back off.<br />
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Remember, different girls have different tastes in guys, or no taste in 
guys. One girl might just feel that you're not her type. However, there 
might be another girl out there who will think you're awesome.<br />
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Now that you've finished reading this, feel free to share on your social
 networks. Your friends will thank you for sharing this piece of info 
with them. Any questions? Ask below using the comment box. Goodluck 
guys!

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TIPS: 11 Things You Should Avoid After Breaking Up

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<span style="font-size: x-small;">No one steps into a relationship with an
 intention of breaking up but sometimes, it occurs and you have to deal 
with it. Now what matters is how you deal with it. The things you do 
after breaking up determines how fast you heal. Most importantly, you 
don't have to break down because you broke up so here are 11 things you 
should not do after breakup.</span></h2>
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<b>1. Don't Listen To Sad Songs:</b><br />
Break up songs and their lyrics don’t mean too much to us until we’re 
going through breakup. If you really want to heal and move on, avoid 
listening to sad break up songs. Have a good cry, be angry, but listen 
to something more inspiring and uplifting instead of sad songs.<br />
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<b>2. Don't Hurry Into A New Relationship:</b><br />
After breaking up with your ex, a big part of you is going to miss the 
companionship you once had.   However, the worst thing you can do after 
breaking off a relationship is getting into a new one.  This doesn’t 
give you time to heal or time to regroup and figure yourself out.<br />
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<b>3. Trying To Maintain A Friendship:</b><br />
Trying to maintain a friendship after a fresh break up is never a good 
idea. It puts all sorts of stress on both of you as you try to somehow 
remain friends. Work on being friends later on down the line, but right 
now, focus on healing and focus on yourself.4. Hiding true emotions<br />
After breaking up with a man, you’re bound to feel a rush of emotions. 
From sadness to anger, confusion and frustration, being emotional after a
 break up is okay. Emotions only become problematic when you don’t admit
 them.  Admit and acknowledge your emotions, and release them. There’s 
no need to fake a smile when you are not happy.<br />
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<b>5. Throwing Everything Away:</b><br />
 If you were with your ex-boyfriend for a good amount of time, it’s 
likely that he’s bought you some pretty nice gifts. Though you may want 
to throw away all of these in the heat of the moment, restrain yourself 
from doing so.<br />
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<b>6. Stalking Your Ex:</b><br />
 Breaking up usually means cutting all contact, which can be really hard
 to do — and may cause you to go into stalker mode, where you look at 
your ex’s Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram daily to see what he’s up to 
and to keep an eye on any new women that he may be talking to. This will
 only cause you tension and heartache.<br />
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<b>7. Destroying Stuff:</b><br />
 Some break ups aren’t nice ones, to say the least, and many times when a
 break up isn’t mutual, one partner is angry. If you’re breaking up 
because of cheating or some other reason, you may feel inclined to ruin 
your ex’s clothing and other personal items. Though it’s a good way to 
vent your   frustration, don’t give in to the temptation.<br />
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<b>8. Don't Seek Revenge:</b><br />
Seeking revenge on your ex posting personal pictures all over the 
Internet will only make you angrier and even more frustrated.  Let your 
vengeance be in the fact that by breaking up with you, he lost a great 
partner.<br />
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<b>9. Begging to be taken back</b><br />
When you really love and care about someone, it can be hard to let them 
go, and this may lead you to think that you can somehow reconcile and 
make things okay again. After breaking up, don’t beg your partner to 
take you back.  Accept it for what it is and move on; otherwise you will
 face more rejection.<br />
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<b>10. Staying In Touch:</b><br />
Once a break up decision is made, there is no need for both of you to 
communicate at all. Don’t text your partner later that night asking how 
they are feeling and don’t call the next day asking when you will see 
them again. Staying in contact only makes healing and moving on harder 
to realize.<br />
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<b>11. Don't Isolate Yourself:</b><br />
One of the worst things you can do after breaking up with someone is to 
isolate yourself. This is a point in your life when you need as much 
support and love as you can get. Don’t separate yourself from friends 
and family.

TIPS: 11 Things You Should Avoid After Breaking Up

No one steps into a relationship with an intention of breaking up but sometimes, it occurs and you have to deal with it. Now what mat...